Rose-colored glasses

Ask yourself

Are you in a pattern you don’t know how to change?

Is it possible you’re in a level of unconscious self-protection that’s keeping your real love from coming in?

Are you willing to look at yourself?

How is it that we can find ourselves in a relationship that feels so difficult and wrong when it used to feel so right? How did this happen? How could we be at this painful place with the person that was supposed to be the one?

Unfortunately, it is so easy to do and we become lost in making things work, figuring it out, not wanting to be alone, or single and dating AGAIN.

The term rose-coloured glasses is used when we see the object of our affection as beautiful, amazing, flawless or at the very least, their flaws are so cute and attractive. Or maybe we even see those flaws as a challenge to be loved away by us.

Literally, the thing that drew us to that person is what ends up being the most difficult. Eg – They are so in charge of their life, becomes, they are so controlling. Eg2 – I love that they need me, becomes, I feel suffocated, why can’t they be more self-reliant!

The love cocktail that was in your brain, those amazing chemicals and hormones that felt like love, attraction, chemistry, connection, was so strong it literally overrode your frontal lobes. Anything that should have set off alarm bells become blurred and justified. Remember, we are all trying to have that happy ending to a part of our original story.

So whoever you find yourself in a relationship with, know that there’s a reason you attracted them into your life. Know that whatever they are bringing up emotionally in you, is actually exactly what you were unconsciously trying to achieve to have that type of person love you, accept you and see your worth. Again, unconsciously you believed if you could be loved by them then that would mean you were actually deserving and lovable.

Don’t worry, there’s a way through this…

On some level, we’re all wanting a more loving and connected relationship. And it is possible, I’ve witnessed beautiful breakthroughs. We can work with what we have and build on that. There are proven ways to make the changes inside of us to create the space for deep conscious love to flourish. It takes some effort, commitment and being ready for something that feels more honoring to each of you.

I can attest to the fact that even after decades, a deeper level of love and trust can be experienced. The amazing part is that one partner can do the work if the other is unwilling to. There are steps to understanding the dynamic between you and learning how to implement changes. And once you’re able to see what has been happening you will be on your way to lasting loving connection.

Identity Development Sessions

Logistical Details:

Date: Every Thursday remaining in 2020.
Except for:

• November 26
• December 24
• December 31

Time: 7:00 PM – 8:30PM PST
Price: $25 *After 4 paid $25 sessions, you are eligible to have your own ID session (be the Subject), for no additional charge.

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